Each of us longs to “ourselves.” And yet we seek the approval of others:we go about asking questions like:”Do you think I’am okay? Do you think am doing things in the right manners?Do you like me?” as we go about asking these questions,we long for genuine answers in our heart,and when we get impressive comments signifying that people likes us.we feel worthy of ourselves-Like we are a terrific person.But even though we may not want to feel liked and accepted by others,we may not always get a positive response.some people may not think of as much of us as we would like.Sometimes,this doesn’t bother us but most of the time especially if their approval is important to us,it only natural to feel hurt,rejected or left out.
All of us are vulnerable of the scrutiny of others.But the question here is,”Why are we so sensitive to the review of others about us?” We want them to approve and accept who we are at our inner level,not only for what they see at the surface.what we really want is for others to accept and like us for who we are-as we are.But have we ever think that what if they don’t like what they see.The fear of being rejected is at the heart of the struggle between hiding and revealing ourselves-and can cause us to feel as thou even the people closest to us don’t really understand us very well.But isn’t it puzzling that you say you wanna be yourself,Yet you let people words judge you,cage you,stop you from believing in your inner self and if care is not taken,those words can crash you down.The only thing you can control in life is yourself.Be inspired to challenge and never give in to the negative things people say about you.
yes!?Be inspired ?. CLASSIC PLUZ|AFRICA™